What age do you know you re gay

by Fred Penzel, PhD

This article was initially published in the Winter edition of the OCD Newsletter. 

OCD, as we comprehend, is largely about experiencing severe and unrelenting doubt. It can cause you to doubt even the most basic things about yourself – even your sexual orientation. A study published in the Journal of Sex Research launch that among a group of college students, 84% reported the occurrence of sexual intrusive thoughts (Byers, et al. ). In request to have doubts about one’s sexual identity, a sufferer need not ever have had a homo- or heterosexual experience, or any type of sexual experience at all. I have observed this symptom in young children, adolescents, and adults as successfully. Interestingly Swedo, et al., , establish that approximately 4% of children with OCD experience obsessions concerned with forbidden aggressive or perverse sexual thoughts.

Although doubts about one’s retain sexual identity might seem pretty straightforward as a symptom, there are actually a number of variations. The most obvious form is where a sufferer experiences the mind that they mig

Parent Suspects That Child Might Be Gay

 


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Believe it or not, it’s a hopeful sign that your teen son has brought up the subject of queer attraction and homosexuality. Nothing is more important than open communication between parent and child — especially when it comes to sexuality and gender identity.

So you might want to try drawing your son out. You could seek, “What made you curious about this?”

If you eavesdrop carefully and respond wisely, he might share more of his thought processes. This can lead to a helpful discussion of the subject. It will also strengthen your bond — and a excellent parent-child relationship is one of the best lines of defense against homosexuality.

Hear your child’s heart

Joe Dallas, an expert in field of same-sex attraction, says that there are three different ways the synonyms “homosexuality” is used:

  • “Homosexuality” can be used to imply specifically homosexual behavior — in other words, sexual contact with a person of the same sex.
  • The word is often used to describe a frame of mind when a person sees homosexuality as a primary ide

    Gay, Transgender Identity May Begin Early

    As early as ages 9 and 10, about one percent of children self-identify as potentially same-sex attracted, bisexual or transgender, according to a national study of the sexual orientation and gender persona development of thousands of youth across the nation. 

    With the majority of previous studies indicating that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) self-identification generally occurs during the mid-adolescent years, the report by San Diego Express University  researchers Jerel P. Calzo and Aaron J. Blashill is providing new insights into first identity development.

    “This is such an important stage, biologically and socially,” said Calzo, an associate professor in SDSU’s School of Public Health and lead creator of the study. “At 9 and 10, youth—whether through their peers, media or parents—are starting to be exposed to more information about relationships and interacting in the world. They may not see any of this as sexual, but they are beginning to experience strong feelings.”

    The team’s findings were derived from datasets o

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